The Five Phases of Trauma Therapy

Trauma is a term that is often very misunderstood in Mental Health. While PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) is a serious condition, far too many people misdiagnose PTSD when in reality the situation was merely uncomfortable, regretful, confusing or better attributed to another condition. Trauma is often uttered as an explanation for odd cognition or … Read more

Toxic People – Mind Toolset

People can be hard. It can be difficult to work out what who to trust and who to distrust. Some people need special care in handling, some people are just toxic. Here is a series of ideas that helps you to get from meeting with the assumption that they are decent, to a potential recognition … Read more

Rejection Sensitivity

Rejection Sensitivity is a strong reaction to perceived or actual rejection. It can often be triggered by fearing having done something tenuous wrong that another person will then act upon, or by the perception of negative feedback. It often starts as a result to poor masking. Masking is a mechanism that neurodivergent people, such as … Read more

Anxiety – Part 1

Anxiety is a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome. At low levels it prepares us for an experience with low predictability in case the outcome is not good for us and we need to act quickly and decisively to become safe. This is a good thing. Anxiety heightens our … Read more