The most important thing to Understanding Mental Illness is recognising that “Mental Illness” is an umbrella term for everything that isn’t “Mental Health”. That is, it describes a number of different outcomes to a number of different causes that all mean that a person is no longer considered “mentally healthy”.
Mental Illness, An Over and Miss Used Umbrella Term
Being Mentally Well means that you are understanding the circumstance/situations you are in well, making wise choices, and others generally agree that this is true.
Let us look at the things that can lead to you be classified as “Mentally ill”.
If something interferes with your ability to understand a situation well, it is hard to make a wise choices about it. If something disrupts your ability to make wise choices, even if you understand the situation, your actions will be detrimental. If you understand the situation, and have made a wise choice, but can’t do the appropriate action, that too can have detrimental effects.
The more bizarre your understanding, perception, choices or actions are from the common person, the more you will be considered crazy, aka mentally ill.
For example:
- You believe you are thinking wisely and behaving well; others perceive you to be making good choices and engaging in good behaviours; therefore you will be considered to be mentally healthy.
- You may look like you are doing fine; but you feel that you are struggling; so you may not be Mentally Healthy, therefore you may be Mentally Ill
- You might be judged as very odd by others; you are internally fine, just different. Others may think that you are not Mentally Healthy and call you Mentally Ill, but so long as your actions aren’t hurting you or others, you are Mentally Healthy.
- You might be internally in poor health and externally appear odd; which more classically fits the description of Mentally Ill.
- Frequently people will use the term “Mental Illness” to describe you.
That doesn’t mean that you are sick or ill. Neurodivergent people are often falsely automatically placed in the umbrella term “Mental Illness”, mostly due to the inclusion of some neurological conditions in the american Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, which later led to their inclusion in the International Classification of Diseases. Neurodiverse conditions such as Autism and ADHD, which are technically neurological conditions, can have traits that mimic common mental illnesses, and co-occur with mental illnesses, such as Autism with Social Anxiety, or co-occurring with another neurological conditions, such as Autism with Intellectual Disability (previously referred to as “low functioning autism”, which should no longer be used).
Nature and Nurture, a False Dichotomy
Mental illness is a nature and nurture problem. In this, we consider Nature the biological aspect of your being, brain and body; and Nurture to be all of your experiences, such as childhood upbringing, parenting, what you have learned, what experiences you’ve gone through etc.
If your struggle is more than 2 years old, then Nature is the primary cause of what is called “mental illness” and Nurture is the secondary cause.
To understand why Nature versus Nurture in Mental Health is a False Dichotomy, consider that it is rare for you to experience a biological (Nature) based challenge and not have your life experiences affected by it (Nurture), and our response to adverse life circumstances (Nurture) often interferes with what we eat, how we sleep, our stress levels and so on (Nurture), which all affect our biology (Nature).
This is why a biological and cognitive approach is best for addressing the problem and getting you back to mental health.
Nature – The Wetware
By Nature, I am referring to the nature of our biology. Frequently, persistent mental ill health is due to nature – that is, something biological about us isn’t working properly and that is affecting how we perceive, think and act. Biological problems need a biological solution, generally Medication [LINK].
Biology can be a factor of genetics, neurology, acquired damage/injury, long response to a virus/bacteria/fungus, diet and allergies.
Wetware is a cyberpunk style terminology referring to the organic components of your being. We use it here to indicate the biological part of who you are, but in a computer paradigm way. Hardware would be non-biological parts such a pacemaker, and the wetware is what the pacemaker plugs into – your body.
It is important to remember that your brain is part of your body, and if your body is not healthy, then your brain is affected by that.
Nurture – The Software
Nurture is not just about how you were raised, it can include your school experience, early work life and all of the factors that led to you developing into an adult. This is more leaning on the village to raise a child idea than only the parents being wholly responsible. While the parents are very important on guiding overall development, part of our village learning is from peers, school teachers, extra curricular activities and family.
Our upbringing is an important factor in a well rounded adult. Unfortunately, this has led to many false ideas about troubled childhoods, poor parenting and some kind of childhood trauma being the root of every problem. Sometimes this is true, but mostly it isn’t. Once you are free from your childhood restrictions, every adult has the option to grow out of their childhood impediments. That is made easier with therapy, but isn’t always needed.
In this time, we learn what the world is and how to deal with it. If you have excellent teaching and the capacity to learn good world lessons, you will be fortified against the countless slings and arrows that may be slung against you. However, if your childhood environment is filled with adversity, and or poor teachers, we will be effectively unarmed and unprepared against the world. That isn’t to say that the whole world is a fight or fraught with peril, but bad luck happens, some people aren’t very nice, and without some kind of strategy to manage this, heal from hurts, and come back to ourselves, we will suffer.
Some people never need a strategy against adversaries. Unfortunately, most of us are not so privileged and we will either come across some person who tries to take advantage of us, struggle with poverty, get sick or injured, lose a job and so on. If the struggle that we are having is based on a neurotransmitter imbalance, or some other biological challenge, we don’t need an adverse situation for us to struggle. Having knowledge of how to manage this gives us resilience and a knowledge of when to ask for and accept help.
Even with the best upbringing, we can find unexpected circumstances that can exceed our ability to cope.
A diagnostic category that I wish existed in the DSM and ICD is “surrounded by toxic people”. Around 30% of the people that come to see me due to anxiety or stress are at least in this category, where they need to learn how to manage toxic people and environments. Check out our fairly extensive Conflict [LINK] play list.
Some of the adversity or circumstances might tip over from life hindering into Trauma. Trauma is actually quite rare and is not the root of all of “Mental illness”. Read more about Trauma [LINK] here.
Severity – A Sliding Scale of Mental Ill Health
There are a number of people who come to see me who are worried that their experience or difference is a sign or symptom of mental illness. From a medical perspective, mental illness is based on how much this is disrupting your life and or someone else’s. A short hand way to think of this is “where is the harm?”. If your experience is not harmful to you or another, and is not disruptive of you or another, then it is just an interesting quirk. It may point towards neurodivergence such as Autism or ADHD, but that isn’t a mental illness per se (it is a neurological difference). Someone who claims harm in the absence of sense may be abusive, in which case check out our Conflict page.
Let us define “severity”. Click on the titles below to expand what each means.